It seems to me…

that people who complain about positive discrimination, are used to benefiting from discrimination.

If you complain about positive discrimination, imagine how you feel about being discriminated against. Then imagine that feeling and if you were a woman or POC , and just call it discrimination. Then imagine that nobody cares and you get hounded for speaking out. That's why you're being a wanker by complaining, you're used to having all the rights.

I learned this with empathy. It still needs work but I'm learning.